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Legacy plants to gift for births, new beginnings and family milestones

Gifted plants can become cherished reminders of significant events and may hold memories for generations, writes Claire Austin.

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A little wander around any rural garden is bound to end up with the owner pointing out important plants, cherished over generations, often planted to commemorate an important event, such as a birth, death, graduation or other family milestone.

 

In the garden I grew up in, near Gulargambone, New South Wales, we always knew that the huge ghost gum towering over the house was a gift from Aunt Grace to my grandmother for looking after her firstborn while she was in hospital having her second child. Asking Dad how old the tree is usually results in a calculation: “Well, Gavin was born in 1961, so that means it was planted two years later, in 1963.” The gum is such a feature in the garden, with its smooth white trunk. It now protects the house from the western sun, so it’s nice that this beautiful and useful tree has its own story.

I was recently at the local rugby club’s 70th anniversary ball. The table chat turned to gardening, and I was telling my friend about my next column idea about legacy plants. She told me that in her garden, where her husband’s grandparents lived some 70 years before, there are two huge jacaranda trees, given to the grandmother as seedlings when she left hospital in Sydney with each newborn baby. It’s hard to imagine the 600 kilometre journey from Miranda to Marthaguy with a new baby, then getting home and trying to keep a jacaranda seedling alive as well.

Fascinated by this story, I did a little research and apparently the sea of purple blossoms each October and November from the trees in the Sutherland Shire is often attributed to Sister Irene Haxton, who handed the jacaranda seedlings out during the 1950s to new mothers at her hospital. 

 

There’s an urban myth that she used to go up to the top of Miranda Fair shopping centre at the end of each spring to view the purple display. I wonder what she’d think of the two trees that have survived many a drought and flood in this isolated garden, so far from Sutherland Shire.

After a decline in local tree canopy, in 2023 North Sydney Council announced a similar ‘Trees for Newborns’ program. New parents can request a tree on the arrival of their baby; we might see a new trend of celebratory trees popping up in many gardens, just like in the 1950s.

The purple blossoms of jacaranda trees have a different meaning for me. Student folklore at the University of Sydney said that if you hadn’t started studying by the time the jacaranda bloomed in the Quad, you were destined to fail your exams.

While trees and shrubs are planted as symbols of new life and hope, they are also often given as a living tribute to commemorate a deceased loved one for generations to come. When we first moved to Gin Gin station, my grandmother gave me two ornamental pear trees. Not long after I planted them, she passed away; so I have a nice little reminder of her each time I mow around them. They are always the first to flower in late winter and I chuckle to myself at how dramatic they are when they change colour in autumn.

When it comes to symbolic flowers, the Peace rose, with its large yellow petals outlined with soft pinks, has become a symbol of optimism and world peace. Developed just before the outbreak of World War II, the rose was handed out to delegates assembled for the first United Nations meeting after Germany surrendered in 1945. The rose is long-flowering and easy to grow.

A rural garden, often tended by generations of the same family, is layered with memories and tributes to previous custodians. I love how each generation can reinvigorate a garden by renovating it, but also respecting the previous owners. But it’s easy to see how the removal or death of trees and shrubs can be heartbreaking for some. Many plants are planted with thoughtful meaning. If only trees could talk!

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